Meet Dr. Mariella Lauriola, Ph.D.
Founder & Clinical Director | Trauma Healing Therapy, Cupertino, CA
About Dr. Mariella
From surviving to living — helping you feel safe, seen, and in charge again
Many of my clients come to me feeling exhausted by patterns they can’t seem to change — stuck between wanting to move on and feeling haunted by what’s behind them. They’ve spent years holding it all together: through childhood wounds, relationship betrayals, medical trauma, or grief that feels too heavy to name. They’re strong, capable people who have survived so much… yet deep down, they’re tired of surviving. They want to live.
I know that desire intimately. Before founding Trauma Healing Therapy, I led a supportive housing program for women overcoming trauma and psychiatric challenges. I learned there that healing begins not in perfection or performance, but in safety — sometimes while rolling out pizza dough and talking about life. Those moments taught me that people don’t need a therapist who “knows better”; they need someone who sees them fully and walks beside them as they rediscover their strength.
Over the past 15 years, I’ve worked in neuropsychological research, community mental health, intensive outpatient programs, and private practice — experiences that blend science and humanity in my approach. My PhD in Neuropsychology and Clinical Neuroscience (UCSF and University of Chieti/Pescara) deepened my understanding of how the brain holds and heals from trauma, while advanced training in EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and the Gottman Method allows me to help clients restore emotional safety and connection in their relationships.
What It’s Like To Work Together
Clients describe me as both warm, kind and direct — a compassionate truth-teller. I’ll laugh with you when laughter brings relief, and I’ll help you face what’s been too painful to face alone. Together, we’ll do the kind of work that moves you from re-living the past to truly re-writing it.
When I’m not in session, you’ll find me dancing, traveling, walking by the ocean, or spending time with family and friends — the things that fill my cup and remind me that we all heal best in connection.
If you’re ready to stop merely surviving and start living again — as an individual or as a couple — I’d be honored to walk alongside you.
Areas of Focus & Populations Served
If you see yourself in any of these experiences, you’re in the right place. I specialize in helping:
- Adult trauma survivors — childhood neglect, emotional, physical, or sexual abuse
- Individuals healing from narcissistic or toxic relationships
- Couples navigating infidelity, disconnection, or communication breakdowns
- Those facing fertility challenges, pregnancy loss, or postpartum trauma
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Survivors of medical trauma and cancer-related experiences
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Individuals struggling with identity, self-worth, or belonging
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Couples seeking premarital therapy or relationship intensives
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Clients ready to do deep, meaningful work — not quick fixes
Education & Professional Experience
Degrees & Certifications
- PhD in Neuropsychology and Clinical Neuroscience – Università degli Studi di Chieti/Pescara & UCSF
- MS in Psychology and Neuroscience – Università degli Studi di Trento, Italy
- BS in Psychology and Psychobiology – Università degli Studi di Padova, Italy
- Master’s in Psychological Counseling – Università degli Studi Niccolò Cusano, Rome, Italy
- Master’s in Couples Therapy and Clinical Sexology – Codex Institute, Vigo, Spain
- Master’s in Family Therapy – Codex Institute, Vigo, Spain
Experience Highlights
- 15+ years of experience in psychology field
- Founder & Clinical Director, Trauma Healing Therapy, Cupertino, CA
- Extensive experience in community mental health, intensive outpatient, and neuropsychological clinicial research settings
- Former program lead and developer for supportive housing for women with trauma and psychiatric conditions
- Advanced training in EMDR Therapy (Certified EMDR Therapist and Consultant in Training)
- Advanced experience as a couples therapist (trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy and The Gottman Method)
Ready to begin your healing journey?
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